Since my post, What Type of Bride Are You?, garnered so many interesting and fabulous responses, I thought I would do a follow up post about how brides express themselves through the “art” of their dress. I’ve stressed time and again how brides today have so many options when it comes to dress design, silhouette, and details. But in reality, this is only true if you put the time in to do your research. During my dress search, I found that despite all of the pretty pictures I spotted in magazines, 98% of affordable wedding dresses looked sorta the same: strapless, white, and long. This frustrated me because although I wanted something simple and timeless, I was busy drooling over $6,000 gowns when my pocket book said, “Spend no more than $1,000”. And the $1,000 or less pile was filled with essentially the same gown re-created over and over again. {Sigh}
So, the purpose of this post is to get the creative juices flowing and to showcase affordable reader dresses that step outside the box. Or maybe you didn’t “step outside the box”, but found a dress that spoke to you…for whatever reason. Or maybe you made your own dress or found a way to alter a pre-existing gown and make it your own. Or maybe you decided to wear or re-create your mom’s dress. {Love that concept, by the way!}
I truly believe that some of us want individuality when it comes to dresses, but get intimidated when we walk into bridal stores and see the same stuff time and again. I spent probably 40 hours + online searching for my dress. It was a fun project that, for the most part, I loved doing. However, some women don’t have the time, the patience, or the desire to troll around on the internet for countless hours. I hope that some of the responses to this post can help us find new, exciting, and plausible options so that every woman can have a shot at finding “the dress”.Feel free to provide links to pictures of your dress or designers’ websites or just leave a tidbit of advice you’d give to someone starting the dress search.
Anne K. in L.A.
Ebay is your friend. I’m not recommending those hokey places that will “make your dream dress”. There are lots of bridal shops and consignment shops that post sample dresses on Ebay.
I was a multiple dress bride. In the course of my wedding planning, I bought and re-sold countless designer gowns on Ebay. At one time or another I have had in my possession, 2 Vera Wang gowns, 1 Angel Sanchez gown, and 2 Amsale gowns. They either didn’t fit or flatter my figure. I never spent more than $300 on any one dress. What I failed to realize is the power of a good seamstress. I re-sold a couple of dresses because they weren’t “perfect”. I discovered later that these “imperfections” {Didn’t like the straps, Wanted a sweetheart neckline} could have been easily adjusted by a seamstress for cheap.
My advice is to find a dress with good structure or an overall style you like and be open to having it adjusted to your liking. There are several talented ladies in the L.A./OC area.
Good luck with your dress shopping!
Cyd
I love the idea of taking a rather simple dress and personalizing it with a fabulous bolero and adding a great brooch to the waist, etc. I spent tons of time window shopping online for dresses, too and it was kind of a downer after a while to find all of the budget dresses being so typical and ordinary and all the same.
Krista
I’m curious … what kind of advice did you get on the bee?
thelessthandomesticgoddess
@Anne K: Thanks for the advice! I can’t believe what good deals you got on eBay. I’ve always been a little scared of eBay, but I think you have made me re-consider its powers… 🙂
@Cyd: Love your suggestions. I’m a huge fan of pretty boleros and brooches!
@Krista: Wow, WB went crazy with the suggestions. Many readers provided links to beautiful dresses by designers that I had never, ever heard of. And almost all of the women had dresses far less than $1,000. If you are ever on WB, check out some of the answers! Their responses are making me re-think my own dress…I’m so easily tempted!